From my own experience, the biggest lesson is that a first tantra session usually feels gentler and calmer than what people imagine. A lot of newcomers expect some overwhelming “energy blast,” but what actually happens is more like slowly settling into your own breath and noticing your body in a more attentive way. When I booked through
Gay massage London a while back, what stood out to me was how much time the therapist spent just helping me understand how the session would unfold. There was this long conversation beforehand where we talked about boundaries, comfort levels, what I hoped to work on, and even what I was a bit nervous about.
The session itself wasn’t rushed at all. It starts with grounding exercises—breathing, light touch, simple guidance—nothing dramatic. I remember being surprised by how much of the experience was about communication and presence rather than techniques. The practitioner kept checking in, which made the whole thing feel safer and way more personal. If anything, the emotional part came later, not as a shock, but more like when your body finally relaxes after being tense for years. So I'd say go in open, but don’t expect fireworks; expect space, clarity, and slow shifts that feel more natural than mystical.
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